tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248364903320019167.post7950029360200369765..comments2023-08-19T02:13:46.750-07:00Comments on A Myeloma Widow's Journey: Missing him ....A Myeloma Widow's Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12981186370330523189noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248364903320019167.post-76595199044708994012011-02-26T14:45:38.520-08:002011-02-26T14:45:38.520-08:00I've always found that it's the day AFTER ...I've always found that it's the day AFTER that is worse (on any anniversary date).<br /><br />Whenever I need to talk to Cliff and esp to make a decision ... I sit still and just talk to him. I listen to my own knee-jerk reaction and choose to ignore it ... and then what he WOULD say or think just comes to me. <br /><br />You know Vern as well as you know yourself, or better even. His Boohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695496303699631884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248364903320019167.post-30217375213781737392011-02-24T07:59:18.061-08:002011-02-24T07:59:18.061-08:00One can only do what God gives them the strength t...One can only do what God gives them the strength to do. After working away from yours and Vern's home all week, why would you want to leave on the weekends. Getting out is "if you need to". You are so grounded, you always have been,you tookevery day God gave you with Vern and took care of him and appreciated him.The fact that you are staying in is not a weakness, it's just what Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248364903320019167.post-71840553798103637962011-02-24T04:45:10.507-08:002011-02-24T04:45:10.507-08:00There is a book called "Embraced by the light...There is a book called "Embraced by the light" that was written by a woman who died(for some time) and was brought back to life. I read it shortly after my husband's MM dx and found it very comforting.<br />You are inspiring me to find a yoga class today. Jersey hugs to you.tim's wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08605449376728668764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248364903320019167.post-55072466870762177522011-02-24T00:38:09.601-08:002011-02-24T00:38:09.601-08:00I wish you luck every single day of the week and I...I wish you luck every single day of the week and I am certain you are doing incredibly well x I sometimes spend best part of the weekend in too. I really don't mind being alone and sometimes it seems a relief not to have to smile when I certainly don't feel like it. I have decided that I shall, for the time being anyway, be rather selfish and only attend or do things I know I can managed Susie Hemingwayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00936508273837230613noreply@blogger.com